There are a ton of expectations about motherhood seemingly coming from everywhere. We are spoon fed messages about what motherhood should be from family, friends, social media, and marketing campaigns. Mothers are often branded as being happy but in reality 1 in 7 mothers experience postpartum depression or anxiety. This can create feelings of dissatisfaction …
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